What to Write in a Christmas Card for Someone Far Away

Quick answer

For a distant loved one, pair a sincere message of missing them with a specific memory or hope for the future. A letterpress card like Frog & Toad Press's 'Missing You This Holiday' sets the right tone.

Decision rules for your message

• Start with a specific memory: Open by recalling a shared holiday moment (e.g., 'Remember making gingerbread houses together?'). This grounds the card in your connection, not just the distance.
• Acknowledge the distance honestly: A simple line like 'Wishing you were here to hang the lights with us' says you miss them without dwelling on sadness. It's direct but not maudlin. Keep the tone light—distance is the context, not the whole message.
• Add a forward-looking wish: End with something to look forward to, such as 'Can't wait to catch up in the new year' or 'Counting down until our next visit.' This shifts focus to hope.
• Choose a card that matches your tone: A blank-inside card like 'Missing You This Holiday' gives you full control. Pair it with a matching envelope (kraft paper included) for a cohesive, thoughtful presentation. If you prefer a pre-written message, look for cards with inside text—this card is blank, so you write everything.

Product that fits the theme

• Missing You This Holiday Greeting Card: Letterpress printed in Providence, RI on 100% recycled white paper, blank inside with a fancy sticker noting it, and sealed in a plastic sleeve. The blank interior lets you write your own message, while the high-quality letterpress finish makes the card feel special and keepsake-worthy for someone far away.

  

Is this approach right for you?

Best for

• Someone who wants to write a personal message rather than choose a pre-printed sentiment
• A recipient who will appreciate the tactile quality of letterpress and recycled paper

Not for

• Someone who needs a ready-to-sign card with no writing effort—choose a card with inside text instead